Tuesday, 28 July 2009

Life in Diaspora

News on the block
Life in Diaspora is sometimes lonely, sometimes interesting, sometimes funny but above all can make you go speechless at whatever cost. I have a friend who for reasons i chose not to disclose is so engrossed in a one Grace Nakimera. so against all odds this friend opted to go for a show 3 hrs away in London just to watch anfukula and Kawonawo and from his presence i discovered that ug music or rather musician have gone to another level, from what i could gather (as the dude was too excited i could hardly understand a word he said.)She - Grace apparently she did not leave anything to the imagination as she bared all...not that i have nugu but what grace isn't doing to men in diaspora. From the some dude i heard that rumour heard it that Grace will be refuse entry in any foreign country as mbu the women in diaspora are making calls to the embassy for her deportation.
Well back to my friend...for three night and three days he didn't sleep all for Grace Nakimela and as a result after travelling 3hrs back to Bristol, he embarked on on extra 6hr journey to have a repeat of Grace Nakemala.If permitted i could diagnose this as symptoms of living in diaspora far too long.

Quick qn;
What would you rather, someone who loves you so much (i.e Carsozy) but that he cheats on you or someone who doesn't love you at all but has you and only you?

26 comments:

Mudamuli said...

Grace is daringly interesting I think.

Ugandan girl said...

i agree with you Muda...how are you girl

Mckeith said...

grace has evolved to a interesting artists. She could be close to a ugandan Diva

Robyn said...

its better to be loved and then cheated upon.
Ps:I left Boston am back in to school.

Oyin said...

wow...that is really something to really think about. I would rather neither...but if I rather had the choice..I would chose the one that doesnt love me...I can make him love me and besides AIDS dont love anyone.

Anonymous said...

I would choose neither coz they still have the same outcome, heartache for you

Beloved said...

wow... ok. life must be tight there!
the question... tight one. i don't think i'd want either... both tight spots. but is it possible for someone to not love you and have only you?
if i HAD to choose, i think i'd choose the second option naye eh eh!!!

jny23 said...

Grace Nakimera rocks. And her videos.......ballistic.

Abt the cheaters; angazi.

normzo said...

grace rocks,and i love her videos... she is a sight.

About your question...just like @jny- I DONT KNOW> seems to be a hard one.

normzo said...

on second thoughts - i have an answer.

I think i will be with the one who doesnt love me....but is only mine and mine solo's.....no sharing-.

Ugandan girl said...

@jyn23 ...which category do you fall in..?

@Beloved...i think thats how arranged marriages work...

@Anon ...how about Oyin's idea of learning to love them..i think that could work.

@normzo..gwe you who doesnt share...what if me i want to share...?

Beloved said...

oh yeah... the arranged marriages thing.. by the way that'd be cool... things used to be much simpler that way... n'est-ce pas?

nevender said...
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nevender said...

What kind of question is this UgGal-seems to be like an internet question with radio buttons as answers.

I rather have devotion.

SilverBow said...
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SilverBow said...

uhmn...i think Grace is worth it. the deportation bit would make good gossip for media people. like me. details?

now on the off topic: neither. there's a perfect match for each of us. we just have to wait until we land on that package. thats my take on thgs, i dont thnik God's that cynical-he makes perfect loving matches. for everyone.

Ugandan girl said...

@SB is this all because of the blogger dude with nice hands...?

@devotion....i like that..but wait is that devotion with or without love..?

@Beloved is this a way of saying you prefer an arranged marriage..

Beloved said...

not reslly... i don't think i'd prefer an arranged marriage... i just said its an easier deal... you know you're bethrothed to this person so life is easy... no impressions to make, no 'floating' insecurities and all that... yeah. if love is a choice then we can grow to love the person... ;-)
yeah...

apr9 said...

I know Grace not so i've anothin to say abt her.......

Whats the point of being with someone who doesn't love or who loves u and cheats?.....thats hard both are as good as being by urself.

nevender said...

Silver makes sense. Lots of it. And I agree, don't think God is cynical.

And Beloved too makes mob sense- I agree with her only snag being the world we live in prefers the new way- fall in love than learn to love.

I think God would agree with the learn to , I think He learned other than fell in love with people like us "dirry sinners"...

Beloved said...

uhhhmmm... i have a question... in relation to SB's reply... does that mean that for each of us there is only and ONLY one 'perfect' person? as in Mr./Miss Right?

Anonymous said...

Love isnt love when you dont get back what you give...period...

Ugandan girl said...

@ Anon...i guess you are right...but eehhh nga thats a stand...

Emi's said...

That's some too much love for Grace


Interesting question...Me, I'd hate a cheater

Beloved said...

i thought love is giving unconditionally...

lulu said...

on that qn... neither