Monday, 14 November 2011

All is fair in love and war

Its all fair in love and war they say, but is it really..??!!

I am a firm believer in talking – let’s sit down and talk it though it like two grown adults and lets come to a solution even if it means that we just agree to disagree. This is one of the reasons politics leaves a bitter taste in my mouth.

What will war solve if it’s at a cost of so many promising lives? The future Bill gate, Steve Yobes, Besigye, Bebe cool and Bobi wine of a generation to come. So you want to control the oil, the gold, the salves, the prostitutes. How about we sit down and make a gentleman’s agreement backed up by the law. Let’s be civil about it and show who the bigger man is. So when the likes of Omara Bashira attack a people who are so fragile and helpless in the name on power and control. It saddens my heart and as the whole world watches I dread to be him on judgment day.

And when it come to the affairs of the heart, why fight, throw acid or arrange a bitch slapping session to another individual simply because the two a company has become three a crowd. If you are old enough to get the emotions flowing through you then you are old enough to know that it doesn’t matter whose taken what , who , when , where. The preacher man last Sunday said that if she stole him from you, its simply because you two were never meant to be, so stop crying, man up and move on (his words not mine). As big a curd it is for me to chew on, sometimes as hard as it is, it’s better to just walk away. After all they do say that time heals all wounds. You will defiantly learn to love again.

These words inspired by ; Whats a man to do? – by Usher Raymond. And the struggle after the partition of Sudan and south Sudan

Have a great week people.

10 comments:

black panther said...

preach!

Ugandan girl said...

Amen ..lol..

savvy said...

Good advice!

Hgh pills said...

Rules of fair play do not apply in love and war. A proverb has been traced to John Lyly the" Euphues. "

theSchudent said...

But that preacherman?1! what happened to ''fighting for what's yours?''

Ugandan girl said...

@ hgh pill..i so agree but for the purposes of this post i beg to disagree.:-)

Ugandan girl said...

@the schudent..sweety this preacher man i am under the impression that he maybe has never been scared.. though i must say preaching something and practicing it are two different things. - disclaimer.

TRP said...

*Voice of hearty black aunt with a wide brimmed hat*

Yeahhhhh!!!
hm! hm! hm!

*waves hand

Mbabazi said...

is it really?...nothing in life is fair. its how you take things that makes it all fair...no?

Ugandan girl said...

heheh @TRP..lol...
@mbabazi ...spot on hun ..:-)